I consider myself a hybrid between west coast and east coast attitudes. I have the grit and the sharp tongue that all native east coasters have (don’t cut me off in traffic, bore me with small talk, or complain to me about “cold” weather). But eight years on the west coast has softened me in a way, made me more of a dreamer, a romantic, and a person who believes she can have anything she wants if she chases after it hard enough.

My life, like most people, have had highs and lows. I have had advantages, like being fortunate enough to move across the country when I was eighteen, graduate college debt-free, and being able to say I’m from a safe, suburban town, with white-picket-fences that families of four (five if you count their golden retriever) own. But like anyone else, I’ve also faced struggles- like having a father who came here as an immigrant and almost got deported when I was 15, having a brother who fell victim to the drug epidemic and experiencing anxiety so piercing that I barely graduated college.Through it all, I have finally reached a point of gratitude for every single event. All these things, the positive and the negative, have led to the conception of Woman Up.

I think back to my mom’s insane work ethic, how she busted her butt to send me to college. I think of my boyfriend, who supports and pushes me, leading by example with discipline and love for his work. Before him, teachers came into my life to inspire me. And all along, my friends were there. There is nothing more motivating and nurturing than feeling understood and loved by your friends, not in spite of your flaws, but because of them. It’s because of these relationships that I’m here. That’s why I’m writing to you from the cushion on my porch. This is my little slice of heaven in Orange County, where I sit and design my goals, my life, and Woman Up.

Woman Up is a collection of these pieces of my heart. The photos, articles and messages tell a story of all the things I’ve always craved: inclusion, empowerment, encouragement, and sisterhood. It’s my belief that we all desire these things as humans. This is a place to find it, stitched into the foundation of Woman Up. 

I want people to share their stories, not just of inspiration and success, but also of doubt and fear. Honesty and shared connection are what bring us closer to who we are supposed to be. Little by little, we will all be inspired to go after exactly what we want…without waiting for someone to give it to us! 

Anyone who is reading this, regardless of your reasons, I’m thankful to you. You are taking a step towards finding an outlet for support and self-growth. That’s what it means to Woman Up. I’m proud of you, and our whole community. We each have a unique journey ahead, so let’s get there together with some grace, laughter and hard work. 

With Love,

Kay